[BUG] Fix record relation optimistic mutation (#9881)

# Introduction
It seems like optimistic caching isn't working as expected for any
record relation mutation, CREATE UPDATE DELETE.
It should not have an impact on the destroy

We included a new `computeOptimisticRecordInput` that will calculate if
a relation is added or detach.

Updated the `triggerCreateRecordsOptimisticEffect` signature we should
have a look to each of its call to determine if it should be checking
cache or not

Related to #9580

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/favorites/hooks/useCreateFavorite.ts

@@ -26,7 +26,6 @@ export const useCreateFavorite = () => {
     );
 
     createOneFavorite({
-      [targetObjectNameSingular]: targetRecord,
       [`${targetObjectNameSingular}Id`]: targetRecord.id,
       position: maxPosition + 1,
       workspaceMemberId: currentWorkspaceMemberId,