Update foreign table to distant table schema (#5508)

Closes #5069 back-end part

And:
- do not display schemaPendingUpdates status on remote server lists as
this call will become too costly if there are dozens of servers
- (refacto) create foreignTableService

After this is merged we will be able to delete remoteTable's
availableTables column

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/databases/hooks/useGetDatabaseConnectionTables.ts

@@ -10,11 +10,13 @@ import {
 type UseGetDatabaseConnectionTablesParams = {
   connectionId: string;
   skip?: boolean;
+  shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates?: boolean;
 };
 
 export const useGetDatabaseConnectionTables = ({
   connectionId,
   skip,
+  shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates,
 }: UseGetDatabaseConnectionTablesParams) => {
   const apolloMetadataClient = useApolloMetadataClient();
 
@@ -27,6 +29,7 @@ export const useGetDatabaseConnectionTables = ({
     variables: {
       input: {
         id: connectionId,
+        shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates,
       },
     },
   });