Update foreign table to distant table schema (#5508)

Closes #5069 back-end part

And:
- do not display schemaPendingUpdates status on remote server lists as
this call will become too costly if there are dozens of servers
- (refacto) create foreignTableService

After this is merged we will be able to delete remoteTable's
availableTables column

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/settings/integrations/database-connection/components/SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSummaryCard.tsx

@@ -53,6 +53,7 @@ export const SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSummaryCard = ({
         <>
           <SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSyncStatus
             connectionId={connectionId}
+            shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates
           />
           <Dropdown
             dropdownId={dropdownId}

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/settings/integrations/database-connection/components/SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSyncStatus.tsx

@@ -6,15 +6,18 @@ import { isDefined } from '~/utils/isDefined';
 type SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSyncStatusProps = {
   connectionId: string;
   skip?: boolean;
+  shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates?: boolean;
 };
 
 export const SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSyncStatus = ({
   connectionId,
   skip,
+  shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates,
 }: SettingsIntegrationDatabaseConnectionSyncStatusProps) => {
   const { tables, error } = useGetDatabaseConnectionTables({
     connectionId,
     skip,
+    shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates,
   });
 
   if (isDefined(error)) {

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/settings/integrations/database-connection/hooks/useDatabaseConnection.ts

@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@ export const useDatabaseConnection = () => {
   const { tables } = useGetDatabaseConnectionTables({
     connectionId,
     skip: !connection,
+    shouldFetchPendingSchemaUpdates: true,
   });
 
   return { connection, integration, databaseKey, tables };