Fix useFindManyRecords withSoftDeleterFilter (#11056)

Fixes #11038

# Fix useFindManyRecords withSoftDeleterFilter

The error came from a faulty implementation of the `withSoftDeleted`
parameter inside `useFindManyRecords` and from the fact that
`withSoftDeleted: true` was added to access deleted records actions.
However, this parameter was always set in
`useFindManyRecordsSelectedInContextStore` instead of considering
whether the filter was active or not.

```
const withSoftDeleterFilter = {
  or: [{ deletedAt: { is: 'NULL' } }, { deletedAt: { is: 'NOT_NULL' } }],
};
```

The final filter was incorrectly doing an `or` operation between the
base filter and `withSoftDeleterFilter` when it should have been an
`and`:

```
filter: {
  ...filter,
  ...(withSoftDeleted ? withSoftDeleterFilter : {}),
}
```

The correct implementation should be:

```
filter:
  filter || withSoftDeleted
    ? {
        and: [
          ...(filter ? [filter] : []),
          ...(withSoftDeleted ? [withSoftDeleterFilter] : []),
        ],
      }
    : undefined,
```

# Fix useFindManyRecordsSelectedInContextStore

- Check if the soft deleted filter is active before using the
`withSoftDeleterFilter` parameter

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/command-menu/components/ResetContextToSelectionCommandButton.tsx

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 import { CommandMenuContextRecordsChip } from '@/command-menu/components/CommandMenuContextRecordsChip';
 import { CommandMenuItem } from '@/command-menu/components/CommandMenuItem';
+import { COMMAND_MENU_PREVIOUS_COMPONENT_INSTANCE_ID } from '@/command-menu/constants/CommandMenuPreviousComponentInstanceId';
 import { RESET_CONTEXT_TO_SELECTION } from '@/command-menu/constants/ResetContextToSelection';
 import { useResetPreviousCommandMenuContext } from '@/command-menu/hooks/useResetPreviousCommandMenuContext';
 import { contextStoreCurrentObjectMetadataItemIdComponentState } from '@/context-store/states/contextStoreCurrentObjectMetadataItemIdComponentState';
@@ -48,7 +49,7 @@ export const ResetContextToSelectionCommandButton = () => {
       RightComponent={
         <CommandMenuContextRecordsChip
           objectMetadataItemId={objectMetadataItem.id}
-          instanceId="command-menu-previous"
+          instanceId={COMMAND_MENU_PREVIOUS_COMPONENT_INSTANCE_ID}
         />
       }
       onClick={resetPreviousCommandMenuContext}