Refactor RecordSingleSelect and RecordMultiSelect to be synchronous (#10469)

## Context
We are experiencing a lot of re-rendering / flash on MultiRecordSelect /
SingleRecordSelect / RelationPicker.

This PR is a first step to refactor this components

## Scope

Only move files to uniformize and prepare for the upcoming refactoring

## Vision
- SingleRecordPicker
- MultipleRecordPicker
- sharing RecordPicker tooling (RecordPickerComponentInstanceContext,
searchState)

Used in other areas:
- RelationPicker (which is actually only a subcomponent of
RelationToOneFieldInput)
- RelationFromManyFieldInput
- WorkflowRelationFieldInput
- etc.

+ remove all effects
+ migrate to the latest APIs
+ make a pass on re-renders to remove them completely (we likely need to
use a bit more familyStates here)

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/object-record/constants/TableColumnsDenyList.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+export const TABLE_COLUMNS_DENY_LIST = [
+  'attachments',
+  'activities',
+  'timelineActivities',
+];