Refactor RecordSingleSelect and RecordMultiSelect to be synchronous (#10469)

## Context
We are experiencing a lot of re-rendering / flash on MultiRecordSelect /
SingleRecordSelect / RelationPicker.

This PR is a first step to refactor this components

## Scope

Only move files to uniformize and prepare for the upcoming refactoring

## Vision
- SingleRecordPicker
- MultipleRecordPicker
- sharing RecordPicker tooling (RecordPickerComponentInstanceContext,
searchState)

Used in other areas:
- RelationPicker (which is actually only a subcomponent of
RelationToOneFieldInput)
- RelationFromManyFieldInput
- WorkflowRelationFieldInput
- etc.

+ remove all effects
+ migrate to the latest APIs
+ make a pass on re-renders to remove them completely (we likely need to
use a bit more familyStates here)

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/object-record/utils/filterAvailableTableColumns.ts

@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
+import { TABLE_COLUMNS_DENY_LIST } from '@/object-record/constants/TableColumnsDenyList';
 import { FieldMetadata } from '@/object-record/record-field/types/FieldMetadata';
 import { isFieldRelation } from '@/object-record/record-field/types/guards/isFieldRelation';
 import { ColumnDefinition } from '@/object-record/record-table/types/ColumnDefinition';
-import { TABLE_COLUMNS_DENY_LIST } from '@/object-record/relation-picker/constants/TableColumnsDenyList';
 import { RelationDefinitionType } from '~/generated-metadata/graphql';
 
 export const filterAvailableTableColumns = (