refactor: apply relation optimistic effects on record update (#3556)

* refactor: apply relation optimistic effects on record update

Related to #3509

* refactor: remove need to pass relation id field to create and update mutations

* fix: fix tests

* fix: fix SingleEntitySelect glitch

* fix: fix usePersistField tests

* fix: fix wrong import after rebase

* fix: fix several tests

* fix: fix test types

packages/twenty-front/tsconfig.spec.json

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
     "types": ["jest", "node"]
   },
   "include": [
+    "vite.config.ts",
     "jest.config.ts",
     "**/*.test.ts",
     "**/*.test.tsx",