feat: new relation sync-metadata, twenty-orm, create/update (#10217)

Fix
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/330#issue-2827026606
and
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/327#issue-2827001814

What this PR does when `isNewRelationEnabled` is set to `true`:
- [x] Drop the creation of the  foreign key as a `FieldMetadata`
- [x] Stop creating `RelationMetadata`
- [x] Properly fill `FieldMetadata` of type `RELATION` during the sync
command
- [x] Use new relation settings in TwentyORM
- [x] Properly create `FieldMetadata` relations when we create a new
object
- [x] Handle `database:reset` with new relations

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>
Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charlesBochet@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/object-record/graphql/utils/generateDepthOneRecordGqlFields.ts

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 import { ObjectMetadataItem } from '@/object-metadata/types/ObjectMetadataItem';
+import { isDefined } from 'twenty-shared/utils';
 
 export type GenerateDepthOneRecordGqlFields = {
   objectMetadataItem: ObjectMetadataItem;
@@ -10,6 +11,11 @@ export const generateDepthOneRecordGqlFields = ({
   objectMetadataItem.fields.reduce<Record<string, true>>((acc, field) => {
     return {
       ...acc,
+      ...(isDefined(field.settings?.joinColumnName)
+        ? {
+            [field.settings.joinColumnName]: true,
+          }
+        : {}),
       [field.name]: true,
     };
   }, {});