feat: new relation sync-metadata, twenty-orm, create/update (#10217)

Fix
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/330#issue-2827026606
and
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/327#issue-2827001814

What this PR does when `isNewRelationEnabled` is set to `true`:
- [x] Drop the creation of the  foreign key as a `FieldMetadata`
- [x] Stop creating `RelationMetadata`
- [x] Properly fill `FieldMetadata` of type `RELATION` during the sync
command
- [x] Use new relation settings in TwentyORM
- [x] Properly create `FieldMetadata` relations when we create a new
object
- [x] Handle `database:reset` with new relations

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>
Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charlesBochet@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/twenty-server/.env.example

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ PG_DATABASE_URL=postgres://postgres:postgres@localhost:5432/default
 REDIS_URL=redis://localhost:6379
 APP_SECRET=replace_me_with_a_random_string
 SIGN_IN_PREFILLED=true
+SYNC_METADATA_INDEX_ENABLED=false
 
 FRONTEND_URL=http://localhost:3001