feat: new relation sync-metadata, twenty-orm, create/update (#10217)

Fix
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/330#issue-2827026606
and
https://github.com/twentyhq/core-team-issues/issues/327#issue-2827001814

What this PR does when `isNewRelationEnabled` is set to `true`:
- [x] Drop the creation of the  foreign key as a `FieldMetadata`
- [x] Stop creating `RelationMetadata`
- [x] Properly fill `FieldMetadata` of type `RELATION` during the sync
command
- [x] Use new relation settings in TwentyORM
- [x] Properly create `FieldMetadata` relations when we create a new
object
- [x] Handle `database:reset` with new relations

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Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charles@twenty.com>
Co-authored-by: Charles Bochet <charlesBochet@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/twenty-orm/exceptions/twenty-orm.exception.ts

@@ -14,4 +14,5 @@ export enum TwentyORMExceptionCode {
   ROLES_PERMISSIONS_VERSION_NOT_FOUND = 'ROLES_PERMISSIONS_VERSION_NOT_FOUND',
   FEATURE_FLAG_MAP_VERSION_NOT_FOUND = 'FEATURE_FLAG_MAP_VERSION_NOT_FOUND',
   USER_WORKSPACE_ROLE_MAP_VERSION_NOT_FOUND = 'USER_WORKSPACE_ROLE_MAP_VERSION_NOT_FOUND',
+  MALFORMED_METADATA = 'MALFORMED_METADATA',
 }