Improve performance on metadata computation (#12785)

In this PR:

## Improve recompute metadata cache performance. We are aiming for
~100ms

Deleting relationMetadata table and FKs pointing on it
Fetching indexMetadata and indexFieldMetadata in a separate query as
typeorm is suboptimizing

## Remove caching lock

As recomputing the metadata cache is lighter, we try to stop preventing
multiple concurrent computations. This also simplifies interfaces

## Introduce self recovery mecanisms to recompute cache automatically if
corrupted

Aka getFreshObjectMetadataMaps

## custom object resolver performance improvement:  1sec to 200ms

Double check queries and indexes used while creating a custom object
Remove the queries to db to use the cached objectMetadataMap

## reduce objectMetadataMaps to 500kb
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We used to stored 3 fieldMetadataMaps (byId, byName, byJoinColumnName).
While this is great for devXP, this is not great for performances.
Using the same mecanisme as for objectMetadataMap: we only keep byIdMap
and introduce two otherMaps to idByName, idByJoinColumnName to make the
bridge

## Add dataloader on IndexMetadata (aka indexMetadataList in the API)

## Improve field resolver performances too

## Deprecate ClientConfig

packages/twenty-front/src/modules/object-metadata/graphql/queries.ts

@@ -25,29 +25,14 @@ export const FIND_MANY_OBJECT_METADATA_ITEMS = gql`
           isLabelSyncedWithName
           isSearchable
           duplicateCriteria
-          indexMetadatas(paging: { first: 100 }) {
-            edges {
-              node {
-                id
-                createdAt
-                updatedAt
-                name
-                indexWhereClause
-                indexType
-                isUnique
-                indexFieldMetadatas(paging: { first: 100 }) {
-                  edges {
-                    node {
-                      id
-                      createdAt
-                      updatedAt
-                      order
-                      fieldMetadataId
-                    }
-                  }
-                }
-              }
-            }
+          indexMetadataList {
+            id
+            createdAt
+            updatedAt
+            name
+            indexWhereClause
+            indexType
+            isUnique
           }
           fieldsList {
             id