Improve performance on metadata computation (#12785)

In this PR:

## Improve recompute metadata cache performance. We are aiming for
~100ms

Deleting relationMetadata table and FKs pointing on it
Fetching indexMetadata and indexFieldMetadata in a separate query as
typeorm is suboptimizing

## Remove caching lock

As recomputing the metadata cache is lighter, we try to stop preventing
multiple concurrent computations. This also simplifies interfaces

## Introduce self recovery mecanisms to recompute cache automatically if
corrupted

Aka getFreshObjectMetadataMaps

## custom object resolver performance improvement:  1sec to 200ms

Double check queries and indexes used while creating a custom object
Remove the queries to db to use the cached objectMetadataMap

## reduce objectMetadataMaps to 500kb
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We used to stored 3 fieldMetadataMaps (byId, byName, byJoinColumnName).
While this is great for devXP, this is not great for performances.
Using the same mecanisme as for objectMetadataMap: we only keep byIdMap
and introduce two otherMaps to idByName, idByJoinColumnName to make the
bridge

## Add dataloader on IndexMetadata (aka indexMetadataList in the API)

## Improve field resolver performances too

## Deprecate ClientConfig

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/twenty-orm/twenty-orm.module.ts

@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@ import { TypeOrmModule } from '@nestjs/typeorm';
 
 import { FeatureFlagModule } from 'src/engine/core-modules/feature-flag/feature-flag.module';
 import { TwentyConfigModule } from 'src/engine/core-modules/twenty-config/twenty-config.module';
+import { Workspace } from 'src/engine/core-modules/workspace/workspace.entity';
 import { DataSourceModule } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/data-source/data-source.module';
 import { ObjectMetadataEntity } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/object-metadata/object-metadata.entity';
 import { PermissionsModule } from 'src/engine/metadata-modules/permissions/permissions.module';
@@ -22,7 +23,7 @@ import { PgPoolSharedModule } from './pg-shared-pool/pg-shared-pool.module';
 @Module({
   imports: [
     TypeOrmModule.forFeature(
-      [ObjectMetadataEntity, UserWorkspaceRoleEntity],
+      [ObjectMetadataEntity, UserWorkspaceRoleEntity, Workspace],
       'core',
     ),
     DataSourceModule,