fix missing trash x off icon (#12699)

## Context
Icon does not exist in tabler-icon it seems, had to create a new one
manually.

Also added a reload current user when roles are updated to update the
state accordingly

<img width="419" alt="Screenshot 2025-06-18 at 13 06 23"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/2667883e-c392-4f68-bc04-7471b9bdd6fd"
/>

packages/twenty-ui/src/assets/icons/trash-x-off.svg

@@ -0,0 +1,7 @@
+<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="14" height="14" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="tabler-icon tabler-icon-trash-x ">
+  <path d="M3 3l18 18"></path>
+  <path d="M4 7h16"></path>
+  <path d="M5 7l1 12a2 2 0 0 0 2 2h8a2 2 0 0 0 2 -2l1 -12"></path>
+  <path d="M9 7v-3a1 1 0 0 1 1 -1h4a1 1 0 0 1 1 1v3"></path>
+  <path d="M10 12l4 4m0 -4l-4 4"></path>
+</svg>