Optimize sync, reset, seed commands to flush cache and to use less memory (#7034)

In this PR:
- removing ugprade-0.24 commands as we are releasing 0.30
- introducing cache:flush command
- refactoring upgrade command and sync-metadata command to use the
ActiveWorkspacesCommand so they consistently run on all workspaces or
selected workspaces

Fixes:
- clear localStorage on sign out
- fix missing workspaceMember in verify resolver
- do not throw on datasource already destroyed exception which can
happen with race condition when several resolvers are resolving in
parallel

packages/twenty-server/src/engine/twenty-orm/factories/workspace-datasource.factory.ts

@@ -146,7 +146,18 @@ export class WorkspaceDatasourceFactory {
 
         return workspaceDataSource;
       },
-      (dataSource) => dataSource.destroy(),
+      async (dataSource) => {
+        try {
+          await dataSource.destroy();
+        } catch (error) {
+          // Ignore error if pool has already been destroyed which is a common race condition case
+          if (error.message === 'Called end on pool more than once') {
+            return;
+          }
+
+          throw error;
+        }
+      },
     );
 
     if (!workspaceDataSource) {