[FE] Update remote table schema + refactor Tables list (#5548)

Closes #5062.

Refactoring tables list to avoid rendering all toggles on each sync or
schema update while using fresh data:
- introducing id for RemoteTables in apollo cache
- manually updating the cache for the record that was updated after a
sync or schema update instead of fetching all tables again

packages/twenty-ui/src/display/icon/components/TablerIcons.ts

@@ -127,6 +127,7 @@ export {
   IconRelationManyToMany,
   IconRelationOneToMany,
   IconRelationOneToOne,
+  IconReload,
   IconRepeat,
   IconRocket,
   IconSearch,